Sunday, October 22, 2017

Recap of my cammiversary celebration!

 I celebrated 10 years in camming!  I started Niteflirt in 2005, which at the time was primarily phone chat.  Eventually with the evolution of technology and video chat services becoming more available to the public cam services began!  From there I went to Imlive, iFriends, and a few other sites.   I was so old school, I originally used a video camcorder to stream!  
MsThang69 and Winter Grand joined me for the celebration!  Winter decorated the room, blew up balloons, and made sure the bed was protected from my grand finale squirt-splosion!  The recorded show is available on for all members, OR if you are just interested in the video itself, has just the video with no monthly recurring charges or subscription access.  

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Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Death by Squirt Juice R.I.P Tiffany!

R.I.P "Tiffany"

Everyone has that 1 piece of equipment that's "Old Faithful."  The one that lasts longer, works the best, and you usually spend the most money on.  My laptop was named "Tiffany" for the Tiffany blue casing that protected it from virtually any damage.  She had the key cover, the shell casing and a screen protector to insure her ultimate safety.  BUT....none of that would guard it from it's ultimate fate.

Last week, Winter Grand and I participated in a "Squirt Olympics" where we competed to see who could squirt the furthest.  The room was covered in plastic for protection, including the laptop.  There were clear plastic cups with different colored Kool Aid that would fill up with squirt juice once we started the games.  Everything was precisely planned and ready to roll.

I set off with some amazing streams but unfortunately they went in the wrong direction.  I ENDED UP SQUIRTING IN MY OWN FACE!!!  Yes.... splashing myself and giving myself a facial shower.  My aim was WAY off and didn't even reach the cups!  I was SO sure I was going to hit each of the cups and remain the SQUIRT QUEEN!  There was no way the newbie squirter, Winter was going to OUT SQUIRT me!  NO WAY!

She was nervous, but prepared.  She drank water ALL day and even up until it was time for her to squeeze out that pussy juice.  She struggled for a while, having NO streaming squirt juice and just gushes of fluids emerging from her young puss.  Her determination would pay off in the end.  She started streaming, spraying and splashing a lot closer to the cups than I had ever reached.   Winter took the victory of the Squirt Olympics.

We returned to our normal days, and my good ol' faithful Tiff worked normal.  Until Monday, she took the final plunge and bit the dust.  I took her to the doctor who opened up and found recent signs of corrosion in the logic board which caused it's final crash.

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Monday, September 11, 2017

Bye Bye BBW Awards

It's been weeks since the announcement was released from AVN & Xbiz that the "BBW" category has been eliminated from the annual awards shows and there are many highly upset.  I, do not share that same sentiment.  For me, this is a wake up call to focus on improving MY brand and MY products for relevant and deserved recognition in the industry.

I get it... many are feeling like this was a major set back in getting recognized among our peers but I personally feel that there is MORE that could be done to justify an award for the work in the BBW niche.  I am going to share what I feel are ways we can improve our industry presence and possibly make an award show come back.

BEFORE I do that, let me just explain that awards shows, conventions and the alike are about money.  I know first hand from doing BBW Fanfest that at the end of the day, your passion for a particular cause or genre can be a great motivation for success.  However, the bottom line is going to dictate whether it truly represents your best interest.   For these shows, sponsors dominate the bottom line with financial contributions in exchange for marketing and advertising opportunities.

The sponsorship is not without it's share of benefit as it comes with many visible advertising perks and mention throughout the show.  This is what separates the small time amateur companies from the major industry players, VISIBILITY.   No one can go to your website or purchase your product if they don't know who you are!

So how can YOU make your brand or company stand out and revitalize the BBW genre?

1.  Due Diligence.

It is often neglected in our niche, with very little effort devoted to learning your craft and researching all aspects of running a successful porn business.  There isn't many successful companies to learn from aside from a few websites and dvd lines to simply review and try to immulate what you think is their formula for success.  SCORE GROUP is probably the only professionally run "Plus Sized" production company using the term "Plus Sized" loosely.  Unfortunately, they really only employ thinner but BUSTY models for their productions.  I wouldn't exactly label them a "BBW" genre company.

There are others that exist but FAR from professional.  Between the model recruitment process, communication failures and rumors of unsavory behavior to secure your employment, to low balling shoot rates and often lowered post shoot, among a long list of other highly unprofessional practices you can't blame the industry for not wanting to give them any of the lime light or recognition.  It also doesn't help that THOUSANDS of dollars are owed to many affiliates for unpaid earnings.

Do your due diligence.  Learn the business outside of just what you plan to shoot or the genre you plan to market yourself in.  Familiarize yourself with the way the industry operates so that YOU can be more professional and take seriously.

2.  Conduct yourself as a PROFESSIONAL.

This is BIG issue that exists in the industry but more specifically in the BBW niche.  From social media, communications with a company or producer, working with other talent, conventions, award shows, to on set behaviors; there is much room for improvement to be made.  In order to be TREATED as a professional, you are going to beed to conduct and present yourself as one.

3.  Be recognized and conduct yourself as a BUSINESS not a star.

I realize that fame is something that many of the people in our industry seek, but it doesn't get you the type of acknowledgement that will lead to a more successful experience within the adult industry.  Stars are recognized, businesses generate revenue.  When you treat your craft as a business, you should start seeing your bottom line look more like a business.

Social media followings are great, but they don't determine your income which will inevitably groom your success.  More income = More money to invest in yourself & business = bigger bottom line.

4.  Follow standard industry practices.

This is where #1 really comes into play.  You have to KNOW the practices to follow them.  From getting tested, model release forms and ID's, cancellation policies, hiring of talent, to on set conduct.... there is a level of respect received when you follow industry standards.  Aside from being a respected company or re-hirable talent, you will find yourself with less miscommunication and more productivity.

5.  Hire an attorney.

An attorney to help you follow the law is always helpful but also to make sure you have all your ducks in a row.  From the time you purchase your domain to the time you release your first movie, an attorney will help you remain compliant in all areas of your production and general business practices.  There are countless benefits from having counsel to refer to with any questions you have.

6.  Get Talent Tested.

This should go without saying but if you are a performer, get Talent Tested.  It is much more professional to have your results available through an industry standard website.

7.  Step up your "shoot" game.

Whether hiring a professional videographer or upgrading your existing production equipment, making sure you stay up to date is key in industry relevance.  Of course, it comes with a price tag but your results will definitely help you stand out from being "just a production company" to high quality content creator and business.

8.  Market & advertise your business.

The world and the industry need to know who you are!  You accomplish that goal with marketing and advertising and not just on social media.  Yes, social media is a great way to reach potential sales but you really have to reach the unknown audience that doesn't know who you are yet!

Whether you hire a public relations person or marketing and advertising manager, the need to have help in this area is an important one.  Having a great website or product isn't enough to make it.

9.  Stop "beefing" on social media or in general.  Settle your disputes without feeling the need to involve others in the business.

Being competitive is natural.  We are human.  However, the extent of unattractive bickering and bullying has really given the BBW's in the industry a bad reputation.  Social media displays many of the poorly executed online fights that only turned off companies who might have had interest in working with BBW's or producing BBW projects.  At the end of the day, it's not generating money.

Look at it like this, whenever a major company responds to a situation similarly, it gets publicly shamed.  That's how other companies see OUR social media beefs.  Furthermore, you detour your fans from purchasing your products by diverting their attention to unnecessary drama.  What are you selling?  Tickets to a bitch brawl or porn?

10.  Eliminate complaining.

Nothing is more annoying than to have someone who ALWAYS complains!  Yes, once in a while you will feel the need to express your discontent on a situation but constant and daily negative feedback just comes off as you are perpetually unhappy.  No one will ATTEMPT to please you if it seems impossible.

11.  Run a business, not a fan club

This is self explanatory and basically reiterates prior points.

Side note:  We are not ENTITLED to anything and that includes awards.  Our category WAS a privilege.  What are we REALLY being recognized for?  BEING FAT?  I certainly don't want to be recognized for just being a BBW... so rather than be upset about it I plan to do something about it starting with myself and my business.

Frankly, I want my products to appear in categories that don't LABEL me as BBW.  That's the REAL accomplishment when you can be in a BEST WEBSITE category with Joanna Angel don't you think?  Personally, it's a public display lacking confidence to think that we can't do anything outside of a smaller competitive group of people.  So broaden your horizons and step up your goals!  Let's see YOU in next year's nominations next the industries TOP performers and companies!

I don't expect my opinions to be popular and frankly, don't care.  It's TRUTH.  I am applying these VERY same points to my own product and brand.  Good luck!

Friday, June 2, 2017


Many of you have asked me how YOU can create your own at home income with chat services, texting, picture messages, phone sex, webcam, video sales and more.  Below are a list of the sites I recommend:


Tutorials, tips and advice will be available soon!   Go ahead and get yourself started!  :)  

Tuesday, May 23, 2017


There used to be a time when words like fat, bitch, slut, whore and so many more drove me crazy and angered me.  We grow up learning the power of words, and it's time we take control of how those very words affect us.   I made a choice a VERY long time ago to remove the power of those words and stop letting others control my happiness, emotions, and ultimately how I feel about myself with THEIR words.

“Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.”

Considering the ‘powerful force’ of the words we utter, we must also consider how much power we give words.  Regardless of the intention behind what is said, YOU dictate the overall outcome of how it will ultimately affect you.   Remove the reaction and negative affect the words has, you remove the power from the person using it.

Many people are compelled to give voice to any passing feeling, thought or impression they have. They randomly dump the contents of their mind without regard to the significance of what they are saying. For example, when we talk about trivial matters as in gossiping about others, our attention is wasted on trivialities.

You would hope that others would speak with mindfulness, in a way to solidify peace and compassion in our characters. Understanding that our words matter, but also the tone which we use has a huge impact on how they are received, interpreted and the overall outcome of communication.

It is said that there are certain rules that should guide all our communications with others. Always speak the truth, avoid exaggerations, be consistent in what you are saying, don’t use double standards in addressing people, don’t use your words to manipulate others, and most importantly do not use words to insult or belittle anyone.

When we need to talk candidly about something difficult with another person, we must focus on the conversation with keen attention and purpose. During the conversation, we must listen patiently, speak tactfully, and tell the truth as we understand it. We must align our words, voice inflection and tone, eye expression, body language, and actions with our inner awareness in an honest exchange.

My intent is to speak positivity into others with words that will encourage and empower them.  Changing the world isn't just about donating millions of dollars to charities and acts of kindness, it is also about how we feed others with words.  Often how we are spoken to is a mirror image of how we speak to others.  What do your words say about you?

Monday, May 22, 2017

Why "I want to fuck you" sets women off!

As of late, I have been reactivating my dating profiles on sites like SLS, AFF and a few others I've had for years.  NOT because I am looking to date... lol the rumor mills would love to hear that.  I have been promoting my profiles and events and in the midst of my promotions I have been utterly disgusted with how men think that "I want to fuck you" is a compliment!

The comment implies so many things.  Maybe you think I am easy because I am plus sized or perhaps being on the site alone implies I am willing to fuck anyone who hits me up as if having a choice isn't a viable option.  Whatever you may think, "I want to fuck you" is NOT considered a compliment.

Perhaps my confidence is off putting as I assume EVERY man wants to fuck me.  Men are inferior beings powered and motivated by sex.  Why would I assume otherwise?  So you TELLING me the obvious does nothing but completely turn me off and shut you down immediately.

Try OTHER approaches, use some mystery and create an interest before diving right into the obvious.  I am beginning to believe that all the men on these sites are just thirst buckets that think that women are too dumb to figure out what your intentions are or simply desperate enough to fall for anything you say for attention.

Nothing you get too easily is worth keeping or having... just saying!!

Thursday, May 18, 2017


We often reach a point in our lives where we have to make drastic changes, and we don't always understand but we just know it's necessary.  They say if you keep doing the same things expecting different results, that is the definition of insanity.  Change is necessary.

I am editing footage, and looking back at all these people I have worked with.  Many ships have sailed onto bigger and better dreams while others sunk.  I appreciate ANYONE who was a part of my personal and professional growth ::period::.

This isn't easy to write...  but it's necessary.

I have let go of the past.  The old relationships, the friendships that failed or simply reached it's end and the people I once connected with on any level.  It was beyond time.  I followed many and allowed others to follow me but no more do I want to lead or be lead.


Life for me, has evolved.  I am growing up and being selfish.  I deserve to be happy and I am happy.  There are rumors as to WHY or how I made the choices I have made and people are going to talk.  The truth of the matter is, sometimes people just become toxic for your environment and growth and I am sure I became that for others.  My disconnect isn't always about others being bad for me but also me not moving in the same direction as those I am around.

I wish you all well.  From the bottom of my heart, I want the best for you even if that means removing myself from the equation.  My silence is misunderstood but necessary.  I am not perfect, and don't profess to be.  Therefore, I know when our communication needs to cease and is not longer reaching positive results.

I hope you all find the happiness you deserve.