Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Exploring the swinger community

You would think that with the years I have been in this business, I would have had more experience with the swing community, but that is not the case.  As of late, I've been seeing someone that has been in the swing lifestyle for a while, which has raised some curiosity as I DO enjoy watching people have sex.  I can't lie, the thought of watching my man ravish some chick's pussy while making love and genuinely adoring mine is quite the turn on.  I am not a jealous person so it wouldn't bother me to watch him pleasing other women or being pleased.

My concerns lie with the other party participants not respecting my "boundaries" and expecting me to fuck just because I am a porn star.  It's rather annoying and frustrating that the expectations of me are unreasonable.  In some cases, they've been down right rude.  It makes the situation uncomfortable and forces me to withdraw and want to leave.

More importantly and even more of an issue is safety.  Having been to a couple of parties and heard stories of people who frequent them often, there seems to be very little precautions taken among the patrons in regards to safe sex, getting frequently tested and simply practicing a more safety conscience play environment.  For me, that is KEY.

I want to explore.  I want to indulge.  I want to experience.  I am creating a FUCKET LIST which is a list of sexually based acts I wish to explore.  Like a bucket list but for sex.  That will be my next blog.

Anyone have any input on the swinger community?  Suggestions?  Comments?  Advice?

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1 comment:

Rich B said...

Kari, having been in the swinging lifestyle for many years, there is sort of a sub culture or cliques if you will in the community where people do indulge without using protection, this is becoming more the norm than the exception over the past few years, and usually there was little crossover between the "bare back" crowd and the "safe and sane" people, but I've noticed the very things you mentioned in your blog and its becoming rampant to the point that my partner and I are starting to question staying in the lifestyle! We've seen people do things with complete strangers without any regards to health issues or protection against STD's and we've known a few women who ended up pregnant from random encounters with men in the lifestyle. My advice would be to indulge with other swingers one on one via lifestyle website as opposed to going to clubs where its almost a free for all environment!